Insiya Abdur Raheem
I am Insiya, a Mental Health Coach, wife, and mom of fourlittle ones, passionate about helping Muslim women live with authenticity and purpose. Born in the Middle East, raised in India, and now living in Canada, I bring a unique perspective shaped by diverse cultures and nearly a decade of experience in counseling, training, and psychological support. With a master’s in Psychology, my work centers on helping women connect with their true values, set healthy boundaries, and nurture their relationships as acts of worship. Through mindset shifts, inner work, and faith-aligned actions, I invite you to join me in creating a life filled with Barakah, connection, and growth. Connect with me below!
You love your husband but..
lately, love has started to feel heavy.
The same man who once made you feel seen and cherished now leaves you feeling distant, unseen, and constantly second-guessing yourself. You replay conversations in your head. You wonder why every attempt to connect turns into another misunderstanding. You tell yourself to be patient — but inside, you feel tired, stretched, and alone in your efforts.
And still… you keep showing up. Because you don’t want to give up — you just want to feel calm again.
If that’s you, sister — this 5-day challenge is your sign of renewed hope.
What if you could…
Feel grounded and emotionally calm even when things aren’t going smoothly between you.
Stop taking everything personally and start seeing your husband with clarity and compassion.
Break free from resentment and reconnect with love — not from naivety, but from strength and understanding.
Shift from complaints to connection, without losing your voice or your needs.
Feel reassured in your role as a wife, knowing that peace begins within you, not outside you.
Right now, you might be thinking…
And I get it. Because I’ve been there — in the middle of postpartum, exhaustion, and endless responsibility — still craving love but feeling like I was the problem.
That’s why I created this challenge. To help you take the first step back toward peace, mercy, and real connection — without waiting for anyone else to change.
What You’ll Experience in 5 Days
Each day, you’ll receive a short, powerful audio lesson (10 to 15 minutes) with a reflection and a simple action that rewires your heart — one layer at a time.
Day 1 – From Resentment to Awareness See the hidden roots of your resentment and gain clarity about what’s really happening beneath the surface.
Day 2 – Decoding His State Without Losing Yourself Learn to understand his emotional lows without absorbing them as your fault.
Day 3 – Reclaiming Your Emotional Grounding Anchor yourself in calm and faith — no matter what the day brings.
Day 4 – From Complaints to Connection Shift how you express your needs so your words land with compassion, not conflict.
Day 5 – Seeing Love in Imperfect Moments Relearn how to notice mercy — even in the small, ordinary ways Allah keeps love alive.
This challenge is for you if you’re ready to…
Stop being defined by emotional ups and downs.
Reconnect with your husband from a place of softness, not survival.
Feel secure in your worth and your role — even if your marriage isn’t “fixed” yet.
Start believing that mercy, not resentment, can be the foundation of your home.
This isn’t just another “marriage tip” challenge.
It’s a heart recalibration — a return to clarity, humility, and Rahmah. You’ll walk away not only with a calmer mind, but with renewed faith that Allah can bring ease where you once felt heaviness.
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